最近和一位老兄喝酒聊天,酒过三巡,这位老哥就喝高了:“牛,牛,牛弟呀,你是一个智慧的人呀。”
我一听有人表扬我,立刻发财的眼睛亮晶晶,立刻大声问道:“我怎么智慧了?我怎么智慧了?我怎么就智慧了?”重要的问题要问三遍!
“你看,我们这些俗人,什么都想干,什么财都想发,我一个学习文学的,过去卖电视,倒钢材,发车皮,贩烟酒,赌股票,批焦炭,什么都干过,什么都没干好,看看你,懂得做什么,不做什么,懂得放弃,真是智慧呀!”
哈哈哈,我的那个心里舒坦的呀,我是一头智慧牛!
仔细想想,我的一生中放弃过多少理想和梦想呀!
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小的时候,特别羡慕那些领袖人物:毛主席,朱老总,刘少奇,林彪,彭德怀,心里的小梦想就是有朝一日,我也当党和国家领导人!但是,文化大革命一来,刘邓陶被打到了,那么多当官的死于非命,我幼小的心灵受到了重创,于是,非常果断地放弃了当党和国家领导人的梦想。现在看来,我对了!
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后来,特别想当科学家,羡慕那些为了科学献身的人,于是就努力学习。直到有一天听到大数学家陈景润的故事,惊出我一身冷汗。原来科学家也可以活成那么悲惨的样子呀?于是,我当机立断放弃了当科学家的理想。现在看来,我又对了!
![Image result for 下围棋](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTk0JQplo5vnOvPJI7Hp6JXgHJR8dYASHxHUnnjaMcJ67-nAj6e_w)
年轻的时候下围棋,总遇不到对手,心想,当不成领袖当不成科学家,咱当围棋高手。后来在大学里参加围棋比赛,输给物理系的一个女生。虽然不属于惨败,但是知道这个女孩比我下的好。后来聊天才知道,这个小江出身于围棋世家,她弟弟叫江铸久,那个时候,她经常赢她弟弟。奶奶的,想起来金庸说的话:“十五岁不成国手,终生无望!”我那年都二十了。
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看来这个小家伙下象棋,唉,象棋没法下了。
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喜欢过很多东西,也放弃过很多东西。年轻的时候喜欢打篮球,都说我打的不错。直到有一次我摸不到篮圈了,怎么跳也摸不到。回到家里,篮球鞋一扔,不打了!连篮圈都抓不住,还打什么篮球呀?放弃!
![Image result for 中国冰球](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRBhV1TuL1qpgCFmsNOn5OgdHy4ApVVmTYcTaP9A7f1cbntnqOp)
滑冰,倒着滑没有那些毛孩子们正着滑快了,封刀,不滑了。
![Image result for 陶菲克反手](http://puui.qpic.cn/qqvideo_ori/0/o0558veqc7m_496_280/0)
羽毛球,连吹牛都吹不过林丹了,不打了。就是陶菲克来拉我去练球,我都不去了。
这些年来,一直在做减法,随着年龄的增长,很多东西都放弃了。没有胜利的喜悦就没有吧,不用拿失败的沮丧来代替,因此,放弃是一种比较好的选择。
子曰:懂得放弃的人是一个智慧的人。
《版权放弃所有,翻印懂得不究》
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