I would like to be quiet to finish my story

This is what I reply to people dicuss my story. I don't want to be the topic.

我不想抢别人的老公，也不觉的我们是对的。八年里我很是挣扎。爱来临时，很难抗拒。我不后悔我付出的爱。

我写下来， 是想对自己这八年的感情有个交代。

我曾经多么盼望自己的婚姻和爱是一起的。我也曾努力尝试好好经营它。我多么羡慕别人有一个美满的婚姻。羡慕那些真心相爱的夫妻。

婚外情是很辛苦和不得已的选择。不到万不得已千万不要涉足。 尤其你真的爱他又不想伤害别人。

我不想给婚外情正名， 我只想讲一个真情故事和记录自己的感情经历。

[栀子花坡]

I would like to think life is journey, just like taking a train.

There are always passenger sit besides you during the whole train journey. Someone comes and sit besides for couple of hours. Some sits besides you for one or two days. But only you companies youself till the end of the journey.

Therefore you should love youself first. All other people are just passenger in your life journey.

[栀子花坡]

这也是你人生的一段经历。This is your history. You can only responsible for your present and your future. You have no control of your history. No time machine in this world.

It is emotional after you finished one life period. Think about when we graduate from college, we aloso felt very emotional. But life continues. He is your history. And you have already graduate from your lover's college.

[noIQ]

相信我，即使你们修成正果，再过几年，也会如此。不管多么美好的感情，都会随风而逝，剩下的是亲情

[Anney08]

回复frustratedalot的评论:
thank you!

[frustratedalot]

我也觉得他和你要的很不同。尤其是他说淡漠了是因为身体接触少了的原因，我一下子觉得很冷。

如果是真爱，他绝对不会有这样感觉的。相反，他应该更热切盼望你才对。

能够被时空阻隔淡化的感情，都不纯粹，放下好。

不好意思，忍不住说了几句。

祝你以后幸福！