Hi 土豆石头妈 , I think you are living at RTP. I will have a job offer at Cary. I am not sure if it is a good idea moving from San Jose to Cary. I have two sons. One is Grade 2. One is 2 year old. WOuld you please give me some suggestion? Thanks, Xin

特别感谢宝贵意见。我只有一个小东西，已经愁的白了头。我会常来串门子，学经验，努力当个称职的妈。

土豆石头妈妈：你好！ 看来我们2家情况有点相似，老大太严，老二太放，老人说太宠。我婆婆整天跟孩子过不去，老告状，她自己吼的也很可怕，不过孩子不怕。如果我们打一下，她又不干。不好对付的一老一小啊。 有空多交流吧。