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you have choices: 给被逼成泼妇

(2008-01-05 14:54:50) 下一个
The key to me is: Can you trust your husband anymore? What you told us are things that you do not like about him. You need honestly come up a list of things that you like about him.
If your answer is yet, you should go for family consoling. If your answer is not sure, you need more time before you even think about devoice. If your answer is NO, then to me, your choices now are:
A live with a man who you can not trust for your life, especially when you need support.
B. Be a single mother

Every choice comes with responsibilities (what you pay) and joy (what you gain). Devoice needs a lot of courage. There are so many bad marriages. Not everyone has courage to devoice. If you want to choice B with condition that someday you will happily married again, you are not ready to devoice. A is a low risk choice for now but your life can get worse if you loss your job. B is a high risk choice but it can not get worse than that and you will have chances to get happily married again.
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